How to get out with a pretty girl?
How to pair with a sexy girl?
How to find an absorbing girlfriend?
At the end of this article, you will have your hands 5 killer steps to go out with the girl you like. You should read what follows as it is that most guys will take the lead when they set the goal of going out with a girl that interests them. They do not know where to start. And often they do it anyhow (we will see a somewhat lower error by 80% of the guys who are trying to find out if they want to seduce the girl is interested). Maybe today you are single and would like to change that.
Perhaps you simply have spotted a girl you like, and you tired of being planted there watching without taking action.
You would like to go further with it, but you are afraid to take you a rake. I assure you, you are not alone. Most guys still struggle at that level and especially if they don’t have these robust plans.
The trap to avoid
Often, guys fall into the trap of asking their friends or friends of their target if the girl in question is interested. This is a grave mistake. For three reasons:
- They could break your shot either by jealousy or by mistake (and believe me it happens more often than you think)
- This makes you look like a guy who dares not, that is afraid to put his balls and seduce like a man.
- They do not necessarily tell the truth about the girl. This is because girls often will not admit some feelings openly. So it may very well tell her friends that you do not take pleasure her she will be attracted to you.
So do not rely on others to seduce this woman for you. It's up to you to do the job.
Step 1: Raise your perceived value
Before establishing a real contact with your target before even talking to her (except say hello if you know or that you have friends), you'll boost your value in the eyes of the girl. Before even engaging the contact, you will send the message to him: "I am a stylish man, I'm the guy for the job, I'm a cool guy with whom it explodes ".Wondering how to do it in practice?
Specifically, it is first to adopt a natural body language, body language at home. Do not cross your arms, occupy space. Make smooth and positive movements.
Convey a high social status: get noticed with stylish people and with girls. More girls will see you hanging out with girls (pretty preferred) the more they will say that you must have something special.
Step 2: Engage the contact with the girl with whom you want out
To get the girl you like, you will naturally incur the first contact with her.You have several ways to take you:
- Either the girl is alone, and then you can tackle it alone, while going cash or indirectly
- Either you use your circle of friends (if you have friends in common): This is the simplest and least risky.
- Send Flowers to the girl and ask for a drive.
Once you have established a first contact with the girl you like, you will play with her but not anyhow. It's like playing with a cat: the goal is to ensure that the cat jumps on the bait without being able to catch him. Keep in mind the image of the ball of wool that the cat tries to catch.
With girls, it's the same.
You will bring the wool ball close enough by communicating the message "I like you", but once you remove the wool ball by communicating the message "I'm not interested." This little trick makes the girls crazy. They then begin the hunt mode and do everything to seduce you. You will then reverse the roles. And there, it will be won.
The moment you achieve high sexual temperatures, you can move to the next level. That is to say kiss or sleep with her. Do not make the mistake of asking him. To realize, to go out with a girl, you do not need to "ask". This is the mistake I did when I was in college. You must embrace it like a man and never fear being rejected.
You will look more confident and sexier than the guy who “demands” a girl to go out with him.
Step 5: Keeping up
If you long to take her out, in the long run, you have to maintain the relationship with the right dosage. The mistake is a failure to commit yourself fully from the beginning. You should not say, "That's it, I have won, and I can relax! On top of that, if it turns out that the girl only wanted to have fun and nothing more, you might suffer.
So be cool, wait to see how it evolves. Continue to see the girl, to sleep with her, etc.